If you’re expecting a baby for the first time, there are many new changes and things that you will need to consider. You won’t know much about what it’s like to have a baby, and suddenly you find that you’re going to be responsible for a whole new life and you’re wondering what on earth you’re going to do. Thankfully, there are many things that you can do in the lead up to having the new baby in order to make it easier on yourself when your child is actually born and you have to start with the real hard work.


  1. Talk about the birth process

Many women try to avoid the birth process and try not to think too much about what it’s going to be like. Yes, it’s going to be painful, difficult and very tough on your body, but it will all be worth it and it won’t be anything that you won’t be able to get over. After all, look at how many women have gone back and had another baby… and another! Talk to other people about the process, ask your doctor to be honest with you about potential complications and read the stories and blogs of other people online who are sharing their highs and lows of pregnancy experiences.

  1. Start preparing early rather than later

You can shop online at stores such as Anything Baby for all the things that you’re going to need. Rather than waiting until the last minute and then suddenly panicking about everything that you still need to buy for when the new baby arrives, start early in order to get as much as possible out of the way. Not only will you then be able to relax and not have to worry or stress about extra things as your due date gets closer, but you’ll have more time to browse for better deals and find the items that you really love rather than the ones that can be delivered on time.

  1. Don’t be afraid of asking questions

Whether it’s your friends who have children of their own, or the midwife and other health professionals at your local clinic, don’t be afraid of asking as many questions as you want. There are no questions which are too small or too silly to ask, and anyone who is your friend or is a good professional will be happy to answer anything.

  1. Accept help

Whether it’s during the pregnancy or afterwards when the baby has been born, don’t worry about saying yes to some help when you need it. It doesn’t make you weak, and just because your mother might have raised children on her own doesn’t mean that you have to if the help is available. Let your partner, family members and friends help you – even doing some grocery shopping or coming round for a drink and a chat once a week will go a long way to helping you feel amazing after childbirth.